Michael Kors look alike bag for less

Recently  i been seeing  many square shaped bags and i am in love with them but ,if your a struggling student like i am ,most of them are pretty pricey. One bag that i love but refuse to pay 15.000 +(not that i have that kind of cash anyway lol is the Hermes Birkin 35CM Togo Leather Tote Bag in Blue ,then there is the Michael Kors Large Hamilton Chain Tote which is about $348 but sometimes $150 on sites such as Rue la la which is quite a steal but still pricey and last but not least there is the Bologna VII Handbag from Bakers which costs $59 ,it actually looks better in person. Which is a great price if your on a budget.

Moving on......

 "Being lonely ... being alone ... for many people ... sucks.  I get it, I get it, I get it.  But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel crappy or doesn't honor the person you are is worse".He's just not that into you

I had my first real relationship this year ,i mean it was great i had liked this person for a very long time and finally he said he wanted to be with me. I was so happy that finally i wanted to be with someone who in turn wanted to be with me but i hadn't thought it true all i saw was a guy i like who had finally liked me back. My relationship lasted three months with this said person only because i ended it ,i realized he was not worth it ,he treated me like crap he did not care one bit about me ,i mean he was sweet and he had his moments. But the relationship i pictured in my mind never happened this person said he cared more for his gym than me ,he never put me first when i asked. I began to wonder if it was really worth it,I realized on our first and last date that i wasn't happy ,i KNEW that this was the last time i would be with this person, our date was on a Saturday ,we broke up the Monday
All along i had ignored my feelings about him i put him in front of everything but he never returned the feelings. During our short relationship i had the feeling that something was not right with him but i pushed it to the back of my head, i thought i was just over thinking it like i do with everything but it turns out i was right all along. He never cared about me he just wanted someone to be there for him. When i received that first text "I like you" i didn't think it was what i wanted to hear ,i should have thought about it but i didn't i reacted too quickly and i got my heart broken. Now i know in the future to things true before committing to anyone.I forgot to mention that we have been broken up for 3 months i still tried to force myself and him to believe that our break up was a mistake ,but then just last week i texted him i wanted to see him,he responded with "NO,people change i am no longer attracted to you."Then and there i realized WHAT THE HELL AM I DOING, i am so much better than this i don't need this guy ,hes the one losing out on me, i can do so much better its his lost i didn't need him it was time to move on. No need to dwell on the past,he isn't worth my time and energy. I learned a valuable lesson this year.

3 shirts i absoutely hated this summer

i am writing this while listening to Gabriel Rodriguez on youtube lol hes funny :D. Anyway so summer is coming to an end and i've noticed a pattern with girls I've seen walking around the subway ,shopping ,etc . I have to say these three tops I'm showing you  happens to be the 3 most hated shirts, I have seen this summer because you know summer is great and all with sunshine and the nonsense people wear . ANYWAY...... number one is the I love my boyfriend shirt seriously!!!! i'm pretty sure the girl wearing this shirt is single, HA  and if do you have a boyfriend and you do love him why wear this stupid shirt ,where a piece of jewelery ,clothing something he gave you and if someone complements you on that item then " oh yeah my boyfriend gave me this .... i love him" wouldn't that be better YYYYYYY would u need to wear this tacky shirt. I mean if it were a "my next boyfriend will be normal shirt that would be better" LOL i have one but its an inside joke,will share that story some other time. Seriously those I <3 my boyfriend shirts are just tacky and outdated ,just do the normal think and post it on Facebook /twitter whatever .... its not as tacky its expected.

Next is the stupid crop shirts ,i mean i like it i do but its the people wearing them. If you have the tummy flaunt it ,but if u think you have the tummy DONT!!!!! and if you know you don't have the tummy PLEASE don't, what  you can do is wear it with a cute high wasted skirt that would be better or a tank top underneath.

Next is this HIDEOUS "ALL OVER LACE SHIRT" SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!  the first time i saw this shirt was on a friend of mine's with a bra underneath and as the days past more and more people were wearing them , i figured i would learn to love it NOT!!!! yet again the whole showing ur bra thing just wear the freaking bra alone ,its better than this UGLY SHIRT!!! NO BUNENO. 
                                           Your's truly ,
                                                                Nisa.

BETSEY JOHNSON BETSEY JOHNSON

OMG OMG OMG !!!!!!!!!!! I was reading my September issue of 17 magazine and i saw a whole lot of BJ clothing  available at Macys  labeled "Betsey Johnson pink label" for all under $100 dollars.I immediately checked Macy's online  nothing came up :(. i did some research online and it turns out Betsey Johnson wants to "broadened her line to a wider audience" so shes creating a more affordable line for people like me who can't afford certain pieces in her store . YAY BETSEY !!!The new line will be features in her Fall 2011 NYC fashion WEEK !!!! I'm so excited.

Do people still care about what they wear anymore???

Today a friend and i were having a debate on what clothes should females wear to work/college even if the job requires a uniform.But its not the clothes we actually wear for working but the clothes we wear  to work or school. I work in a corporate environment but i work in the mail room and we are required to wear uniforms at all time while working but we are not required to enter the building in our uniforms ,so we usually would wear casual attire to enter the building. Recently i noticed since its summer most of the women i work with have been wearing really inappropriate clothing to enter the building, i mean come on!!!!!!! belly shirts with ripped jeans, skin tight short  dresses, in a nut shell as one of my friends would put it "club couture" TO THE WORK PLACE,am i the only one that find this stuff really inappropriate. Now for school , yes i know its summer but college is sort of a professional environment, is it really necessary to wear those daisy dukes or those belly shirts or a shirt where i can see your entire bra and jeans so low i can see your underwear.
The way i was brought up its just a form of respect , for my fellow co-workers and professors. Clothes say a lot about the person wearing them. I have no idea if i am offending  anyone (I'm probably the only one reading this) but i just think it's ridiculous that people don't care anymore.
                                                                                                           Yours truly,
                                                                                                                    Nisa.

Marvin's Room by JOJO

On replay.

I have been up three days
Adderall and redbull
This call is a mistake
There’s something strong in this water bottle
I hear you got a new chick
But that’s a little Barbie doll
I feel so pathetic
But you still haven’t heard it all

[Chorus]
Fuck that new girl that you like so bad
She’s not crazy like me I bet you like that
I said fuck that new girl that’s been in your bed
And when you’re in her I know I’m in your head
I’m just saying you can do better
Always turned you out every time we were together
Once you had the best you can’t do better
Baby I’m the best so you can’t do better

[Verse 2]
I ran into your homeboys
They’re all fucking idiots
You’re not even my boyfriend
But you’re tripping because I’m in the club
Yeah that’s right I’m dancing
And something cool is in my cup
I’ma send a sexy picture
To remind you what you’ve given up

[Chorus]
Fuck that new girl that you like so bad
She’s not crazy like me I bet you like that
I said fuck that new girl that’s been in your bed
And when you’re in her I know I’m in your head
I mean, I’m just saying you can do better
Always turned you out every time we were together
Once you had the best boy, you can’t do better
Baby I’m the best so you can’t do better

Sometimes all you need is a friend.....

Summer was off to a rocky start but one person is always there for me no matter what. She is that one girl i can seriously rely on for anything,no matter what we do, we always have so much fun. We do the most random things like visit her family who are all really hilarious and she has a HUGE family ,we sometimes walk around stores like target which we did today or visit the most random places like restaurants in Park Slope or little tiny ice cream shops that sell non-fat organic home made ice cream she's just the funniest sweetest person ever. She's always up to new things , our trips are never predictable. She also happens to always be accurate when it comes to giving me guy advice. I took her advice and i feel so much more better about my break up and my fling i had with another guy.All i have to say is not everyone needs a best friend in their life but just someone to talk to and be there when you need them,someone who isn't afraid to try new things with you. I know from experience being with the same people and doing the same things over and over can get really dull and strain your friendship with that person. Branch out and so different things and hang out with different people once in awhile ,its what worked for me.

Your truly,

Nisa.

Get Hilary Duff's Pants for less than $10

I just happened to stopped by target ,i usually never go in there but my friend is a manager at one store and i decided to pick her up on Sunday.As i was waiting for her shift to end i started to browse the store and i came across these pants which i found on sale for $7-$8 something like that but on the website its $20 i suggest you buy it directly from the store.I bought myself a pair but i haven't has a chance to wear them as yet ,but their really cute. I was recently browsing fitperez.com and came across a picture of Hilary Duff wearing pants that are similar. So if you would like to steal Hilary's style get yourself a pair. :D